Psychic Medium Matt Fraser Mystified, Enlightened and Healed

Thursday night in Massachusetts psychic medium Matt Fraser had a thousand loyal fans on the floor laughing, by talking to their deceased loved ones. How can that be funny, you may ask? Well ask the Rhode Island born medium who says his gift was handed down from his grandmother. "She couldn't really share it out loud in those days. She even kept it from my grandfather." It was home-spun stories like that and dozens more that entertained, mystified, enlightened and healed a loving Lynn Auditorium audience.

Millions have seen Matt stun his audience in person and on television sharing his breathtaking gift. His hit show Meet The Frasers is on E Entertainment. According to Matt's website:

Rhode Island. The smallest state in the nation is primarily known for its sandy beaches, wicked local accent and loud Italian-American presence. Until now…
In this half-hour reality sitcom, follow the humor, heart and hijinks of Rhode Island’s emerging golden couple, psychic medium Matt Fraser and his beauty queen girlfriend, Alexa, and their extended families.

On stage, Matt's Rhode Island humor comes through: "right now, your deceased loved ones are whispering in my ear, telling me to talk to you, and they won't shut the hell up."  That is the gift of someone known as a psychic medium. If you want to believe it (I do) there are people among us that possess the ability to receive messages from beyond our physical world from our deceased loved ones, and interpret them for those here, still living.

Some may believe it's baloney. But watching Matt in action can transform even the most rabid skeptic. Matt pointing to a woman in the audience:

"Your Dad is here, he's RIGHT NEXT TO YOU! Did your Dad die recently?"

Women in audience: "he recently died, but not from smoking."

Matt: "He's right there."

Woman: "hmm...I don't think it's my Dad."

All of the sudden the woman BEHIND the first woman jumps up and says: "Did you say died of smoking? It's MY DAD."

The audience watching on the huge auditorium screen gasps in amazement.  At this point Matt continues to stuns the audience with a list of rapid fire, hysterical and heartfelt validations that could in no way be known.  The proof was the reaction of the daughter of the deceased smoker, (and many in the audience) crying happy tears.

I have experienced this gift first hand. In the past, I have had two readings from wonderful and skilled mediums. They report back that my Dad is with me each day. Both readings, 20 years apart, said the same exact thing. My Dad, came through to both mediums, using specific language. They both said "your Dad is saying you stepped up for him. What does that mean to you?" When he was sick back in 2002, I stopped my fulltime radio career for six months and moved in with him and my Mom, back home to help them. When he was alive he would say, "you stepped up to help me." I have never posted that on social media, or shared it with anyone. How could the mediums know that personal fact? There were other stunning validations that came through, which reinforced my belief.

On Matt's website Kelly says:

His readings will definitely raise the hair on the back of your neck. 

If you're fascinated with work like Matt's, you may want to get his book "We Never Die." It checks off all of the boxes between our world, and the next. Actress Jenny McCarthy's endorsement of the book reads: "This book is like my own private reading." When Matt comes to your town, you get an incredible value at his show. You get a free autographed book and a picture with Matt if you get his meet and greet package with the tickets. He was very friendly and generous with taking pictures and selfies.

All of us have one thing in common: we all have or will have a loved one that will leave us, some day. Matt's beautiful gift and entertaining personality, makes his audience leave feeling lighter, knowing that our loved ones, while they leave us physically, never leave us, and are here watching over us.

The word "irresistible" brings to mind all kinds of good connotations. The word means you're charming, fun, inviting, friendly and simply someone people want to be around. Who wouldn't want that, right? Well, as it turns out, there are some special traits that irresistible people have.

Of course, a lot of times when you hear the word "irresistible," you think about looks. Sure, that's most often the first thing you notice in a person. But, for this article, we're talking about traits that don't have anything to do with looks that make you irresistible. There's nothing wrong with still having good looks, of course. "Positive qualities are personal attributes, character traits, skills, or strengths that are considered good or help us in some way," notes Berkeleywellbeing.com. "It's important to know your positive attributes and keep them in mind to develop a healthy level of confidence and self-worth." They add that in order to really fall in love with someone, people have to feel "equally fascinated by their partner's mental qualities." I totally agree.

Reading through this list, you don't have to possess all these qualities. "No one person can have every good quality — but every person does have some good qualities," notes Goodgoodgood.co. "We each have an opportunity and an obligation to continue to grow and improve ourselves." They add that learning these is part of one's journey towards self-discovery.

Now, let's get into the list of traits that irresistible people have. Note that these traits are attractive in both men and women. They're just universal. Of course, I would always start with the golden rule, to treat others how you would like to be treated. That's definitely an important character trait to possess and one that's always a winner. I personally believe being a good person is sexy and attractive.

Of course irresistible people are confident in themselves. "Everyone becomes more attractive when they feel good about themselves," says Ameliamiazy.medium.com. It's true. Flaunt your awesome self.

Being kind is attractive. Sure, it may be trite to say that girls always go for the "bad boys." That's fun at first, but it gets old really fast. "Countless studies have found that altruism, kindness, supportiveness, and empathy are what we look for most in someone and find most desirable," states HackSpirit.com.

Why's everything so serious? Life can be difficult, so having a fun-loving outlook can really be a breath of fresh air. "Playful people enjoy teasing, wordplay, improvising and taking challenges in a light-hearted way," says Spring.org.uk. "They enjoy unusual things and are good at creating situations people can enjoy."

You don't have to be annoying chipper all the time, but being a positive person can go a long way. There's already so much negativity in the world. Why add to it? Having positive energy is always a good thing.

Having a sense of humor isn't just about being funny. It's about enjoying other people who are funny, too. People definitely find having a sense of humor attractive, whether you're cracking your own hilarious jokes or enjoying others.

Being open-minded and non-judgmental is welcoming to people. Everyone loves feeling accepted. So, when you meet new people and are a listening ear to people currently in your life, remember not to judge. Just listen and love. "Honesty – telling the truth and not obscuring the facts – is fundamental to our happiness and relationships," states Berkeleywellbeing.com.

Being honest, of course, is a great character trait. People love honesty. Of course, that doesn't mean telling someone you hate their new haircut. It does mean being upfront about who you are with the people you love.

Don't change your personality to try to become more "irresistible." There's nothing more attractive than being you. But, be aware of these positive traits and lean on the ones that you already possess. In the end, being irresistible to people is about being friendly and yourself, and these traits can help you get there.