Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Have Reservations About Staying In Valentine’s Day
I thought that I was really going to be on the ball this year for Valentine’s Day and make a reservation for 2 at a local restaurant that my wife has been wanting to go to. It was still late January when I confidently went to their website to lock down reservations. Well guess what? The only available times were 4:30 and 9:30.
Okay, I don’t know about you, but those times were either ridiculously early or late. Who wants to get dressed up for a “romantic night out” at 4:30 in the afternoon? Sure, I don’t mind eating early to beat the crowd, but at that time you will be home watching Wheel of Fortune before you loosen your belt from a great meal.
On the other hand, eating at 9:30 for some people is no big deal. If you don’t mind being the last couple in the place after 11PM when the entire staff is looking at you to hurry up and slurp your coffee and dessert and get the heck out so that they can close down and go home.
Did you ever ask yourself what the staff at the restaurant does to celebrate Valentine’s Day dinner? They have relationships just like we do, but they have to celebrate either before or after the 14th.
They also might just be tired of restaurants and decide to stay home and cook their own dinner or do take out. Is that so wrong?
Reservations about not making reservations?
A lot of us wouldn’t mind having Valentine’s dinner at home too. Let’s face it, you will be paying roughly 3 times cost for that filet and mashed potatoes with broccoli . That’s not to mention the price of a cocktail or a bottle of wine.
You can also pick up dessert at your favorite bakery and brew up some of your special coffee to cap the night off.
Of course, you need to present this idea to your wife or girlfriend and hope that they agree with you and don’t mind staying in.
I would suggest that you still get dressed as though you were at going out to a nice but casual restaurant and not wear your favorite sweats. It is up to them to dress the way they want, but you should make it like it’s a real date.
Add roses and nice smelling candles and a nice table setting and be your most charming self. Try to do the cooking alone, but your “date” will probably want to assist in the kitchen, which can be fun too.
If all else fails, just order in from her favorite restaurant, that will defeat the saving aspect, but at least you left it to the pros and there won’t be any waitstaff giving you that look that says, ‘wrap it up already”
True confession time, I made reservations for Valentine’s Day dinner at my wife’s other favorite restaurant at 6:00PM. Maybe next year will be the year I try it at home. Just need to convince my wife that I will not overcook her petite filet.
Common Valentine's Day Mistakes to Avoid
Buying a last minute gift
Having no plans, even with good intentions, can make you seem inconsiderate and unmotivated. While it’s tempting to resort to last-minute convenience-store flowers or a generic box of chocolates, your partner likely knows you’re more creative. Avoid scrambling to find the perfect last-minute Valentine’s Day gifts. Instead, have a plan in place, making your partner feel valued with the thought you put into it ahead of time.
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Not making reservations
Valentine’s Day is a peak time for restaurants, spas, and getaways, so avoid waiting until the eleventh hour to snag your spot. Many places fill up weeks or even months before the big day. According to Taste of Home, it’s wise to plan and secure a reservation five to six weeks in advance. Mark it on your calendar to avoid any slip-ups. If you realize you forgot, try calling around to see if any restaurants have last-minute openings, or opt for a cozy romantic dinner at home.
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Not discussing a budget
Surprises are great, but when you gift your partner chocolate and roses and they surprise you with a trip to Hawaii or a new car, it can be a bit awkward. Although it’s uncommon to have such a huge difference in gift budgets, having a quick chat before Valentine’s Day can be beneficial. Set some guidelines. Maybe agree on a small budget, like under $20, or consider pooling funds for a more extravagant joint experience.
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Ignoring preferences
People often make the mistake of organizing Valentine’s Day based on their preferences rather than considering what their partner likes. Avoid overlooking your partner’s wishes or desires for the day. If your significant other prefers a cozy night at home over a fancy dinner, make sure your plans align with their preferences.
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Skipping it all together
Even if you’re not a big fan of Valentine’s Day, your partner might be a total romantic, so don’t act like it’s just any regular day. You don’t have to pull off a huge, fancy gesture every time, but completely ignoring it can be hurtful. Making a little effort shows you care. Complaining about the day doesn’t help either. Some people see Valentine’s Day as a bit commercial, but pointing that out or making excuses to ignore it might disappoint your partner. Griping about putting effort into the day can quickly spoil anything special you decide to do for them.
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