1 Pricey Reason Men Should Never Go Dutch On Dates
Ladies, we have a new debate on our hands.
And this time, it’s all about why some women refuse to split the bill on dates. Spoiler alert: It’s not just about chivalry anymore; it’s about hidden prep costs. According to a viral TikTok from a New York City-based creator, Nancy, she’s already spent a small fortune before even stepping foot on the date. The New York Post shared her breakdown, and let me tell you, it’s jaw-dropping.
Nancy’s tally for a pre-date glow-up? A whopping $394.49. Yes, you read that right. Between a $38 Cycle Bar class, a $75 mani (plus tip, of course), and $223 in beauty products like $52 blush and $35 mascara, she’s out here dropping serious cash to look her best. And let’s not forget the brow appointment ($38) and the hair care routine that puts most of us to shame.
Nancy’s point? She’s already “splitting the bill” long before dinner arrives. She’s shelling out just to show up—and she’s not about to whip out her card for the real bill at the end of the night. “I’m not taking out my credit card when I’m already paying with my time and looks,” she jokes.
Some agree, while others, like podcast host Kimberly Murstein, think this reasoning is a bit much. She admits she expects a man to cover the first date but not because of her beauty treatments. Murstein says she does “the reach” for her wallet but secretly hopes the guy will take care of it (classic move, right?).
While the dutch on dates debate rages on, one thing’s for sure:
The beauty-prep costs are real, folks. Whether or not that justifies skipping out on splitting the check? That’s still up for debate. But hey, at least we all know now that dates cost more than just the price of dinner.