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BEFORE You Get Married, Ask This..

Author Jaybeau Jones
WEST PALM BEACH, FL - FEBRUARY 14: A couple exchanges rings as they are wed during a group Valentine's day wedding at the National Croquet Center on February 14, 2014 in West Palm Beach, Florida. Approximately 40 couples were married in a ceremony put on by the Palm Beach Country Clerk & Comptroller's office. (Photo by Joe Raedle/Getty Images)

Do you really want the answers?

Knowledge indeed is power. But SOME questions, we may not want answers to.

Take this website that arms you with the TEN questions you want to ask BEFORE you get married.

Question #5 (This is a real question)

Are you open to counseling if we need it?

I will agree that some of these questions are good, standard questions we should ask as you’ll see. But, is it ever a great time to admit failure before you even start the journey?

I would save the counseling question until you have a few healthy successful married years under the belt before you enter THAT world.  To me, while it’s healthy to be open and available emotionally, starting in with that question too soon, could scare off a potential great partner, suggesting that your partnership isn’t strong enough to handle problems as a team. Where as if you wait, you most likely would have, as a married couple, have already solved a few major problems together, building confidence. Hence, bringing up counseling may land less as a threat or fear and more as a caring compassionate thought.

Question #6

Are we allowed to record these answers? (I just added that.)

https://lifehacker.com/10-questions-to-ask-your-partner-before-getting-married-1847468514

Jaybeau Jones’s radio career has brought him from New York City’s #1 station Z-100 and America’s Top 40 to WROR! Currently, JayBeau’s distinctive voice can be heard not only on WROR but also on Sirius XM’s 70’s Channel and on Dunkin Donut’s in-store radio. Jaybeau’s other life is his writing. In 2012 he launched “Heroes Mentors and Friends” a book about well-being and positive thinking. Jaybeau lives in the area and has two grown children, Jordan and Matthew. Jaybeau loves spending time in nature and spending every second with his wife Heidi and the kids. Jaybeau likes to write about pop culture, music, and personal growth. Jaybeau also loves to write his own backyard in Boston.

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